The term "likeability" refers to possessing qualities that create a favorable impression. We tend to like people who are similar to us, so when we meet someone new, we often judge them and categorize them to determine if they are alike and belong in our circle. Based on this assessment, we decide whether or not we find them likable. To become more likable to others, we may try to mimic their behavior and talking patterns. However, our experiences and knowledge may limit our ability to do this. We cage ourselves. We lost our true self.

"Why does this happen?" It fundamentally roots in our fear of the unknown and our resistance to step out of our comfort zone. We feel that the comfortable zone we are in is relaxed and safe, yet by limiting ourselves to it, we also limit our growth.
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Nowadays, many organizations promote diversity, recognizing that it's beneficial to know people who are different from us. While connecting with people who are similar to us feels natural, reaching out to those who are not is referred to as "bridging." So, what does it mean to be likable, and what is our responsibility in this?​

​One of the best things we can do for our children is to teach them how to read. By starting to develop a reading habit from an early age, we can help them to expand their knowledge, broaden their horizons, and learn new ways of thinking and problem-solving. If you haven't already done so, you can start by reading to your children and encouraging them to read on their own. You can also provide them with a variety of good books that will enrich their lives and enhance their learning.

Make sure to read at least 20 pages every day and don't stop until you're satisfied. If you need to read more to solve a puzzle, go ahead. You can easily Read One Book a Week. Check out our reading blog's "What to Read Next" series or use and readthistwice.com if you're unsure of what to read.