The YouTube video titled "The Secret to Becoming Truly Rich" argues that the essence of living lies in making a positive impact through our existence. Our existence involves occupying spaces where we require homes to reside, kitchens to cook, parks to play, and communities to interact with others. This personal sphere of existence is not just a mere reality of life but presents an opportunity. We exist not only to consume resources or pass the time but to contribute to the world.

We all live on our stage where we can positively impact the world through acts of kindness, spark innovations, and foster connections. Wealth is a concept that extends far beyond our bank accounts or the material possessions accumulated. With a suitable accumulation of resources and possessions of value, the real measure is the wealth of impact, meaning, and purpose.

Being truly rich involves recognizing our potential and actively working to realize it. We can positively influence our communities, whether by volunteering, sharing knowledge, or simply practicing kindness in our daily interactions. By focusing on how we can help others and make a lasting impact, we elevate our existence from mere survival to a life of purpose and fulfillment.

Human nature, with its timeless and unchanging aspects, forms the bedrock of our shared human experience. Across generations and civilizations, the depths of human emotions have remained constant – love's ecstasy, fear's tremor, joy's radiance, anger's fire, and sadness' embrace. 

• The primal instinct of self-preservation drives us forward, fearing loses, inspiring ingenuity and resilience in the face of challenges. 
• The intrinsic need for social bonds endures, knitting families, friendships, and communities, creating a tapestry of interconnected lives.  Our empathy fosters compassion and solidarity, unifying us in times of triumph and adversity.
• Rooted in the timeless pursuit of meaning and purpose, we seek to discover our place in the grand scheme of existence. Nurturing personal growth and fulfillment, we strive to reach our highest potential. In this journey, curiosity and the quest for knowledge push us to explore the mysteries of the universe, unraveling its wonders. Guided by an internal compass of morality, we navigate the complexities of right and wrong, seeking harmony within societies. 
• Communication and expression remain the channels through which we bridge our inner worlds and forge connections with others. The ever-present adaptability of human nature equips us to navigate the changing tides of history, navigating the currents of progress and evolution. 

In these enduring threads of human nature, we find a tapestry woven through time, binding humanity together in a shared journey of life's enigma.​

Today, my husband and I saw BIG watermelons in the grocery store. They are almost three times the average size, but the prices... were just incredible. For a few bucks more, you can get a triple-sized melon. We grabbed a big one on the top and went back home. I did wonder why many didn't pick the larger ones for the excellent deal. It was the biggest watermelon I ever bought-25 pounds!​

Then, we realized several mistakes were made. First, we didn't carefully check the ripeness of the melon as we usually do. The watermelon is overripe. A large portion of the melon turns into waste. Second, the watermelon is too big for the two of us. We have limited appetites. How many days do we need to consume all of them? If we do, we can gain melon fatigue very soon. Suppose we don't eat fast or dominate our kitchen table with watermelon recipes. In that case, the melons will continue deteriorating, and we will be wasting food. We hate to waste food. Period. 

Several lessons are learned. 

• The more significant actions we make, the greater impact on our lives. Without picking the good watermelon, the large watermelons cause more damage than the smaller ones. 
• Enough is enough. We need to know our needs and get what is necessary. Exceeding our needs creates an unnecessary burden. To keep watermelon fresh, each has limited time, and each day I can only have some amount of watermelon. These restrictions decide how big a watermelon I can buy. 
• There are always multiple factors driving our decisions. Focusing too much on one aspect can overlook others, thus leading to wrong choices. I forget freshness and taste simply because we are obsessed with size. 

Every day, we make many decisions. The Big Watermelon experiences remind a fundamental rule often blinded by ambition: Too often, "less is more." 

An old saying goes, "Out of sight, out of mind," and I've recently found it to be true. When I kept my vitamins in the pantry, I often forgot to take them. However, when I moved them to my office desk with a bottle of water, I found it easier to remember. This made me realize the importance of keeping frequently used items within sight. I now apply this rule to my fridge as well, making sure to position things in a way that prevents them from going past their expiration date.

The same applies to our social interactions. Attending meetings is an excellent way to show your involvement and let others know your contribution. Additionally, taking the initiative to walk into the office to chat and greet others can leave a lasting impression and increase your chances of being remembered for future opportunities.

Sometimes, problems in life are not obvious. It's important to identify and document them to ensure they get resolved. This also applies to project management. By making issues visible to the team, they are motivated and responsible for addressing them.

Our memories are often short, and our attention spans are limited. Therefore, make things that matter visible.

Life is made up of unique and cherishing moments. In a world filled with distractions and constant busyness, embracing life's moments becomes a challenging practice. The challenge is our mind tends to wander. It revisits the past. It explores and plans for the future. Buddhism refers to the unconstrained state of mind as the "monkey mind," where the mind is like a tiny monkey running amok and creating noise. In this state, we cannot experience true reality.

We need to spend effort to embrace and celebrate life's moments.From pausing for a tea break to engaging in mindful activities, these seemingly small actions can profoundly impact our lives and accomplish our well-being and happiness. These intentionally created experiences are present to unlock the potential for greater happiness and fulfillment.

As we take a moment to pause, breathe deeply, and savor the beauty of each passing moment, we quiet our minds and bring back focus when we are fully at present. Life is not just about reaching our destination but the magic we can discover in each step of the journey. ​

We don't have time to do everything. Therefore, it is necessary to limit things that may take our time and energy. These limits are our boundaries with the outside world.

Why set boundaries? Before every flight, we learn that during emergency situations, we must put on our masks before helping others. The case shows the fundamentals of self-care as the basis for helping others. When we can't even take care of selfies, our help becomes people-pleasing, possibly burdening others in the long run. A comfortable relationship demands that everyone in the relationship feel safe and with mutual respect. 

What do we need to do? We need three basic steps to create, declare, and hold boundaries. 

• Creating boundaries starts with knowing what we want by examining our goals. These goals define our boundaries. It's also about not bending to the expectations of others instead of following their true purpose. Does it matter what Mom and Dad expect us to do? Do we have to agree when everybody else talks about something meaningful that can bring a better life? Make our own judgment. ​
• Declaring boundaries means letting people know our specific limits so they can respect them. 
• Holding boundaries requires saying no when our boundaries are crossed. When we are pushed back, we can ask why others demand our help and decide what to do. ​

After the pandemic, the boundary setting becomes more critical because we stay at home more with our loved ones. "Knock on the door before entering the room." became a basic house rule to respect each other's boundaries.

​When we work remotely across timezones, others can easily book meetings that are not operating on our schedule or even leave time for a bio-break. The stress can build up. Blocking break time on the calendar and declining interruptions can be an excellent start to setting boundaries. 

There are many other examples: taking a family vacation, saving time caring for the health, securing quiet time for learning... ​These simple actions can assert and nurture our own needs. ​​ Setting boundaries so we can live from our true desires. ​